The Brief

this blog post is inspired by my recent trip to MRT yesterday. the culture that a guy must open the door for a lady has been present in our society for ages. and the gentleman is diminishing.

plus.

a girl can perfectly inspect a guy’s penis in a physical check-up. while a guy shouldn’t even dare touch a female’s breast in a clinic, unless he is old and he is already physically deprived of erection and the capacity to harass.

there is a problem with the equation.

i will not shout that it is unfair, i will never question the gender equation, i just feel a little disappointed. not that i wanted to protest and insist on the argument (well, males are already doing vaginal operation already, so the argument is somehow weak), but i wanted to see it again in another perspective.

as i always insist, my argument is always situational. i do not generalize my opinion.

the question of power. guys are more powerful than girls. untrue. even the other way around. power is unequally distributed, one sex cannot assert power in a general sense. for I do not belong in that perceived “male power”. I am physically weak, I can’t even hurt a cockroach.

enough of this. i couldn’t explain more.